You have been dating someone since long after a great find on an online adult dating, site. It may not have been a love at first sight kind of thing but gradually perhaps without your knowing the relationship moved from just casual sex into a serious one. The first sign is that you have stopped looking for other people with whom you want to have sex.
The second sign is that you have begun to take precautions and you have begun to bother about the likes and dislikes of you adult dating site partner who has certain sexual preferences.
The third sign is that you have now decided to put yourself into a commitment where you are going to remain faithful only to your partner and your partner is going to remain faithful to you.
While all this is great what you need to remember is that basically your relationship is based on sex and you are going to have to take that into account when you are going to step into your commitment.
Before you take your adult dating relationship to the next level by committing yourself you need to ensure that sex should not be the only reason you are getting into it. Just because your penis fits into her vagina or vice versa it does not mean that you are just right for each other. Also the fact that you two have the same sexual preferences also does not guarantee a great future together.
A great relationship is based on mutual trust and support that should come from within. Don